I think men just assume that women understand each other, and straight women assume lesbians have great relationships because, wait for it, they think we understand each other! I’m going to tell you a HUGE secret….we don’t understand each other at all!!! We pretend we do, but the actions of fellow femmes boggle us as much as the next person! We all have unpredictable hormones raging around us, and I don’t think I’m alone in saying I am constantly left staring at a woman in disbelief because I. Just. Don’t. Get. Her! Friends, family, partner…they all mess with my head!!